I saw the thread about best hotels/motels but I wanted to ask a more specific question about where to stay!

I'm going to Ocean City for the first time with my boyfriend and a couple friends. I'm looking to stay in a really nice hotel (with the most stars possible)! I know that sound pretentious but I have OCD, so I have issues with staying anywhere that doesn't seem super super clean! We are all over 21, so we're looking to drink, eat, party, have fun, and be right by the beach and where the action is! Could someone suggest a good hotel to stay at? The Hilton or Holiday in seem to be really popular choices!

Thank you!!